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How to Be Perfect (First Year Read, 2023)

A guide to the 2023 First Year Read Program pick, How to Be Perfect by Michael Schur (2022).

"Moral Exhaustion," Compassion Fatigue, & Moral Equilibrium

Moral exhaustion is Schur's invention (chapter 8), but he acknowledges it's maybe not a wholly original idea.


"Moral Equilibrium"

"Moral equilibrium is the idea that most people keep a running mental scoreboard where they compare their self-image as a good person with what they actually do."

(Source: Ethics Unwrapped)

 

Moral Equilibrium (Ethics Unwrapped)


Compassion Fatigue

"The burnout and stress-related symptoms experienced by caregivers and other helping professionals in reaction to working with traumatized people over an extended period of time."

(Source: American Psychological Association Dictionary of Psychology)


Born on Third Base

How to Be Perfect cover image  Cited By Schur (Chapter 12)

I’ve been thinking of a way to explain to straight white men how life works for them, without invoking the dreaded word “privilege,” to which they react like vampires being fed a garlic tart at high noon. It’s not that the word “privilege” is incorrect, it’s that it’s not their word. When confronted with “privilege,” they fiddle with the word itself, and haul out the dictionaries and find every possible way to talk about the word but not any of the things the word signifies.

So, the challenge: how to get across the ideas bound up in the word “privilege,” in a way that your average straight white man will get, without freaking out about it? (Scalzi, 2012)


Robert Frank: Success and Luck (Cornell, 2015)


If You Ever Need to Apologize, Be Sincere About It

How to Be Perfect cover image  Cited By Schur (Chapter 13)